The heart behind our work

Our Story

The Carry Project was born from a simple, devastating truth: when a family leaves the hospital with empty arms, the silence that follows can be deafening.

Read our founder's story
A note from our founder

Something small became something worth sharing.

The Carry Project began in the tension of grief. In the middle of that pain, I longed for a community that would show up for me, not out of obligation, like friends or family often do, but out of purpose.

A hospital bag was never something I thought twice about, until I packed one for my son. Inside were the small things that would become our only keepsakes. That bag became the seed of a memorial space I'm building for other families walking the same road.

Years earlier, in 2019, my firstborn had spent days fighting in the NICU, as I reminisced on her experience I knew I wasn't the first to carry heavy experiences in the hospital. Two different heartaches, both born in a hospital, made me want to build something better for the families who come after me.

The Carry Project Inc. exists to stand in the gap. We refuse to let anyone leave the hospital empty-handed.

We can't take the weight away. But we can carry part of it with you.

Today, our volunteers hand-pack bags placed directly into the hands of families by partner nurses, chaplains, funeral directors, and community leaders across the country.

From our hands to theirs

Thoughtfully packed.
Personally given.

Each bag meets a different moment. Our volunteers make them with care; our organization partners place them with families.

Memorial comfort tote with keepsakes and journal

Memorial Bags

Remembrance items, comfort, and small objects to hold onto.

NICU comfort tote with blanket, journal and baby milestone cards

NICU Comfort Bags

Practical comforts for families spending difficult days in the hospital.

Little sibling comfort bag with teddy bear, crayons and activity book

Little Sibling Bags

Something thoughtful for brothers and sisters beside the journey.

Bags are distributed through organization partners, not by individual request.

More than a bag

There is room for connection, too.

Bereaved-parent peer support, individual mentorship, and a book club are open to adults 18 and older. Draw Near, our Christian Telegram devotional channel, is available by invitation. Fathers' and men's groups, children's peer support, and therapy programs are still being planned.

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No family should have to carry this alone.

Help carry the mission

Put comfort into
another family's hands.

Give toward a comfort bag or connect your organization with The Carry Project.